I'm late to the party and have extensive experience with people like this in the workplace. You have to just do your job, and not theirs. Refuse politely but firmly. If they throw a stinkin' fit, it's them that looks bad, not you. You can say shit to their face, but be false and polite about it. Their poor performance with bite them in the ass eventually and Karma, that bitch will take her pound of flesh leaving you the innocent one. Love ya~ Virg
Hey, Megan? I have a different slant on this, because, well, of course. Anyway…
Ever think it’s possible your coworker would *LIKE* your comment? People get “off” on getting pissed on, shit on, etc. So be careful what you say. You might be feeding his kink.
Beyond that? I’ve come damned close to telling people the same thing. I actually asked a guy once if he was gaining weight, cuz my back sure hurt from carrying him around.
BTW, you’re fortunate you can get away with calling someone a cunt-hole. As a guy, I simply do not have that option. It’s like black guys calling each other …. which a lot of them do all the time.
I wish I had a community like this when I wanted to throw rhinoceros poop on my managers Megan!!!!!! Dayumn! The journey would have been much easier to bear lol 😂😂😂.
Love love love this! For me, I believe it's like...I crib a lot about my spiritual journey and how fucking exhausting it is you know? How it feels like I've been put in a washing machine, and god knows how I come out of it. At the same time... that's who I am too. I don't know who I'd be without that journey, and in a sort of psychotic way, I also crave that adrenaline and the stress???!!
You are a better person than me, because I would totally send that message. Dudes like that - especially ones who openly treat you like shit - need to get called out.
You could say "Uh, no" to his request. If he asks why, then respond with, "Because I don't even wipe my daughter's ass anymore, I'm not going to start wiping yours. Take care of your own shit."
I feels it. If I didn’t have a family dependent upon me for my steady paycheck, my career in corporate would be very different.
I will share a philosophy of mine: never, ever feel shame or remorse for an urge or emotion. It doesn’t matter how deranged, destructive or possibly criminal it is. Even if that emotion is shame itself. What matters is what I do with it. Do I blindly act on it, possibly incurring terrible consequences for myself and others? Or do I acknowledge my feelings, take them into consideration, and then act in the best way to both retain peace of mind and get through the day.
For instance, in this case I’d have said nothing but gone to the parking lot and let all the air out of his tires. He’d never know who did it. (I kid! I kid!)
I'm late to the party and have extensive experience with people like this in the workplace. You have to just do your job, and not theirs. Refuse politely but firmly. If they throw a stinkin' fit, it's them that looks bad, not you. You can say shit to their face, but be false and polite about it. Their poor performance with bite them in the ass eventually and Karma, that bitch will take her pound of flesh leaving you the innocent one. Love ya~ Virg
Hey, Megan? I have a different slant on this, because, well, of course. Anyway…
Ever think it’s possible your coworker would *LIKE* your comment? People get “off” on getting pissed on, shit on, etc. So be careful what you say. You might be feeding his kink.
Beyond that? I’ve come damned close to telling people the same thing. I actually asked a guy once if he was gaining weight, cuz my back sure hurt from carrying him around.
BTW, you’re fortunate you can get away with calling someone a cunt-hole. As a guy, I simply do not have that option. It’s like black guys calling each other …. which a lot of them do all the time.
sometimes I'm just dying to say it too. then responsible aka annoying me thinks better of it.
I wish I had a community like this when I wanted to throw rhinoceros poop on my managers Megan!!!!!! Dayumn! The journey would have been much easier to bear lol 😂😂😂.
Love love love this! For me, I believe it's like...I crib a lot about my spiritual journey and how fucking exhausting it is you know? How it feels like I've been put in a washing machine, and god knows how I come out of it. At the same time... that's who I am too. I don't know who I'd be without that journey, and in a sort of psychotic way, I also crave that adrenaline and the stress???!!
Not sending the message but sharing what you wanted to say with a bunch of strangers on the internet feels like the perfect middle ground 😉😁
May I suggest. Instead of TP and wiping, how’s about a bidet…WITH BOILING HOT WATER !!!
Ahhh, that felt good 😜😜
You are a better person than me, because I would totally send that message. Dudes like that - especially ones who openly treat you like shit - need to get called out.
You could say "Uh, no" to his request. If he asks why, then respond with, "Because I don't even wipe my daughter's ass anymore, I'm not going to start wiping yours. Take care of your own shit."
I feels it. If I didn’t have a family dependent upon me for my steady paycheck, my career in corporate would be very different.
I will share a philosophy of mine: never, ever feel shame or remorse for an urge or emotion. It doesn’t matter how deranged, destructive or possibly criminal it is. Even if that emotion is shame itself. What matters is what I do with it. Do I blindly act on it, possibly incurring terrible consequences for myself and others? Or do I acknowledge my feelings, take them into consideration, and then act in the best way to both retain peace of mind and get through the day.
For instance, in this case I’d have said nothing but gone to the parking lot and let all the air out of his tires. He’d never know who did it. (I kid! I kid!)